Baby spoons are not just smaller versions of adult spoons (spoiler alert!). In this buying guide for the best spoons for baby, we’ll go over how to pick the best baby spoon, frequently asked questions, how to teach baby to use a spoon, tips for baby self-feeding, and the best spoons for both traditional weaning and baby-led weaning. For ages 6-12 months.

Graphic for post – best spoons for baby, recommendation, tips, 6+ months. Image of a baby holding a spoon against away backdrop. Bottom images are of colorful spoons for purées and baby lead weaning against a white background.

Medically reviewed and co-written by Lauren Braaten, Pediatric Occupational Therapist (OT).

Baby Spoons

Whether you use a traditional weaning approach, baby-led weaning, or a combination of both, at some point your baby is going to need to use utensils, including a spoon. And although a baby eating yogurt with their fingers at 7 months is oh-so-adorable, a child eating yogurt with their fingers at 7 years is not quite as cute. So when can you start introducing a spoon to your baby?

Most babies can swallow a spoonful of puree without choking when they are around 6 months old. Babies can start to use a spoon by themselves at about 10 to 12 months old, according to a report on infant and toddler nutrition from The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

While it’s true that spoons + food + babies = messes, your little one will continue to get better at using utensils like spoons if you give them opportunities to practice.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you need a baby spoon?

While you can use a regular spoon in a pinch (and with adult assistance), most pediatricians recommend using a shallow, smaller spoon for feeding your baby. A smaller-sized spoon makes it much easier for your baby to eat from it. Most baby spoons are also made from softer textures, such as food-grade silicone, that won’t hurt sensitive gums.

What age does a baby need a spoon?

You can offer your baby a spoon around 6 months of age, just don’t expect your baby to be proficient with it. Giving your baby lots of opportunities to practice holding a spoon and bringing it to their mouth from an early age will help develop hand-eye coordination needed for more efficient utensil use later on.

What age can baby use their own spoon?

All babies are different, but typically baby won’t be using their own spoon well until they are closer to toddler age, around 12-14 months. Self-feeding will still be messy at this age, especially depending on what foods you offer.

How many spoons do I need for my baby?

You’ll want at least two or three baby spoons at first, but likely even a few more. With self-feeding, spoons frequently get dropped on the floor, or they can easily get lost when going out to eat or traveling.

How to Pick the Best Spoon

Buying baby spoons is different in many ways than buying spoons for a toddler or older child. Here are a few tips to consider when picking the best spoon for both your baby’s and family’s needs.

Feeding Approach –

Although there are spoons that work well for both traditional weaning and baby-led weaning, some spoons are designed more for parent feeding, while others are designed more for baby’s self-feeding. Think about what type of approaches you plan to use with your little one and consider trying a few different options as your baby grows.


An infant spoon should be relatively small and narrow so that it fits easily in the mouth. A shallow bowl is helpful so that baby can close their lips and easily clear food off the spoon. Shorter, thicker handles are easier for your baby to self-feed with, while longer, thinner handles help parents feed purees.


You’ll want a material that provides structure and is firm, yet flexible and gentle enough for baby’s mouth. Food grade silicone is a popular choice that also allows your baby to “teethe” a little on the spoon. Stainless steel and plastic may also work for your baby, especially if the spoon has more than one texture or material.


The variety of colors, designs, and textures are endless these days. We like spoons that offer “built-in” teething options, such as added texture via bumps or ridges on the handles.

Best Spoons for Self-Feeding Babies

Best Spoons for Purees

How to Teach Baby to Use a Spoon

  • As with starting solid foods in general, make sure your baby has good support at their head, trunk, and feet, ideally via sitting in a high chair or booster chair.
  • Serve thicker purees that will stick easily to the spoon to start with, such as oatmeal, mashed sweet potatoes, or greek yogurt.
  • Model dipping the spoon in the puree and bringing it up to your mouth. You can do this with your baby’s spoon before offering it to them and with your own food during the meal.
  • You can simply hand baby the spoon and see what they’ll do, but you may also want to consider pre-loading the spoon to help baby get started. Just scoop up a small amount and either set the spoon on the tray for your baby to grasp or place the spoon in their hand. This may help decrease frustration with unsuccessful attempts in the early stages of learning.
  • Don’t worry if your baby doesn’t seem interested in using the spoon or is more distracted by throwing it off their tray at first. You can always remove the spoon and offer it again at another meal. Your baby can still get in great practice with hand-eye coordination needed for spoon-feeding by dipping their fingers in a bowl and slurping the puree off of them!

Tips for Baby Self-Feeding with Spoons

  • Be patient. It takes a lot of practice to learn to use utensils with ease. Self-feeding using both fingers and a spoon at meals is common for babies and even toddlers until they become efficient.  
  • Rotate, rotate, rotate. If your baby wants to be in control but can’t seem to get the spoon to his mouth fast enough, set yourself up with 2-3 spoons to use throughout the meal. Load and then re-load each spoon after a bite, handing the spoon to your baby one at a time.
  • Start small. Only put a small amount of puree in your baby’s bowl to start with, in order to prevent the mess from getting too crazy.

Best Spoons for Baby